"Statistics have proven that women are beaten an average 35 times before they make a formal report; the anxiety of these women accurately reflects actual conditions. When a woman sees herself as being physically endangered her quality of life suffers dramatically" (Reginald and Posterski: 148- 149, Unknown year).

Therefore, females believe that they cannot be happy if they are not safe? When we are happy life seems to be of no hassle. However, if you are constantly being abuse emotionally, sexually and physically life seems so much more complicated. Why? If we are in fear majority of the time, while anxiously praying that another episode of violence does not occur, what time do we have to do all the things we enjoy? Ladies do you understand you are an individual not his property. You are a person and according to the Canadian Charter of Rights and Freedom you have the freedom of your own thought, belief, opinion and expression (Schedule B Canadian Charter of Rights and Freedom 2[b]). You do not have to spend time worrying about getting hurt by him anymore. Do all the things in life you want to do; do not listen to what he has to say anymore. Just remember you are your own person with your own expression and do not let any man limit your expression. Our lives does not have to suffer from today, we can be happy; only you have the power to be strong and happiness will evolve once you are safe.  

Stay Safe.